So many cancer patients talk about wanting their spouse to find the right person and love again. I love my husband and don't want him to be unhappy or lonely, so ultimately I want that too, but it's crippling, nauseating, and heart stopping to think about. Maybe when I'm knowingly closer to death my perspective … Continue reading My Husband Having a New Wife – from My Brain Cancer Freeish Perspective
Of course I fear cancer returning its ugly head. But I am taking this moment, this breath, and acknowledging my gratitude that I'm not there. I chose to be active in life rather than powerless to cancer.
It's hard to do things that are a waste of time when you are already short on time.
Sometimes life-events are so shocking or overwhelming that people react differently than they normal would. This change can be valid, and even necessary at the time, but when things heal or settle, there can come a time when safety mode is no longer effective, and can even be counter productive. That's where I am.
I'd like to share this blog with you today: On Survivorship, from the Survivors http://glioblastology.com/2018/09/17/on-survivorship-from-the-survivors/ — Read on glioblastology.com/2018/09/17/on-survivorship-from-the-survivors/
If you exclusively read positive posts, or if you are easily offended or squeamish, please skip this post and we’ll catch up later. Today I needed to vent but I know it’s not right for everyone. Much Love, LahLa God help me, Cancer, if I ever meet you in person, not your cowardly slither into … Continue reading Fuck You, Cancer!
Psychologists out there, please try not to, "duh.." me, but did you know that many of my problems in life and EVERY SINGLE ONE of my problems in relationships traces back to my childhood family roles?